Dad wonder what is wrong with him
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Dad sits quietly sometimes, staring off into the distance, his eyes filled with questions he can’t quite put into words. He wonders what is wrong with him—why his body feels weaker, why his mind sometimes drifts away like clouds on a windy day. There are moments when he forgets small things, and it troubles him deeply. He used to be so sure of everything—strong, confident, the one everyone turned to for answers. Now, he feels the world has become unfamiliar, and that feeling scares him more than he lets on. He asks softly, “Why can’t I remember like before?” or “Why do I feel tired all the time?” And though we try to reassure him, he knows something has changed. Inside, he’s fighting to understand, to make sense of what’s happening to his body and mind. It’s not just confusion—it’s loss, and he feels it every day in ways words can’t fully capture. Yet even in his worry, Dad still shows courage. He tries to smile, to laugh at small things, to hold on to the pieces of himself that remain steady and true. His wonder is not just fear—it’s hope too. Hope that tomorrow he’ll feel a little better, that the fog will lift for a moment, that love will remind him he’s still the same person we’ve always cherished. Watching him wonder breaks our hearts, but it also teaches us patience, compassion, and the deep beauty of standing by someone who’s trying so hard to understand what time and illness have changed.
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