Dementia Stole My Dad Seemore:

Dementia didn’t take my father all at once. It crept in slowly, like a thief in the night—first stealing his short-term memory, then his sense of time, and eventually his grasp on reality. I used to think the cruelest thing in the world was death, but I’ve come to learn that watching someone you love slowly disappear while they’re still breathing is a different kind of heartbreak—one that never lets you grieve in full. My dad was once the sharpest man I knew—quick with a joke, meticulous with detail, always reading, always learning. He taught me how to ride a bike, how to tie a tie, and how to stand up for what I believe in. He was my compass, my quiet strength. But now, some days he looks at me and doesn’t know my name. Other days, he’s convinced he’s still at work or back in a time when his own parents were alive.

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There are moments—brief, beautiful moments—when he remembers a song, a story, or says something so “him” that I want to freeze time. I treasure those flashes of clarity, knowing they won’t last. I try to meet him where he is, even if that place is decades away from today. What dementia doesn’t steal, though, is love. His spirit—though bruised and altered—still holds the essence of who he is. I still see glimpses of his warmth in the way he smiles at children, or chuckles at an old TV show. There’s still a spark in his eyes when we hold hands, even if he’s not sure why my presence brings him peace. Caring for someone with dementia has taught me patience, and redefined what it means to be present. It’s also taught me grief in slow motion—a daily mourning of memories, roles, and conversations we’ll never get to have again. Dementia may have taken my dad’s mind, but it cannot erase his legacy. He is still my father. Still my hero. And I will continue loving him, fiercely and gently, through every stage—until the last flicker fades. Because even when he forgets me, I will never forget him.

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At 93 years old, Dad is back

In this touching image, an elderly man sits quietly in a wheelchair, wearing a black IOWA Hawkeyes hoodie — a symbol of strength, loyalty, and perhaps a lifetime of memories tied to sports or family. His hands are gently folded in his lap, marked with the visible signs of time and experience. There's a calm yet deeply thoughtful expression on his face, as though he’s remembering something — maybe a game, a moment, or a loved one long past.

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Leaning in closely is a man, possibly his son or caretaker, dressed casually in a blue shirt. His body language speaks volumes: gentle, attentive, and full of quiet respect. He seems to be listening or speaking softly, connecting not just through words, but through presence and love. The elevator's wooden paneling suggests they’re transitioning — from a room to a visit, from one place to another — just as life is often a quiet series of transitions. The simplicity of the setting makes the emotional undertone even stronger. This is more than just a photo. It’s a moment of dignity, care, and connection. It reminds us that even in silence, love speaks loudly, and that caring for our elders is one of the purest forms of gratitude and humanity.

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When you still care about your wallet, you still care about living.πŸ’ͺ❤️

There’s something deeply symbolic about the way we treat our wallets. It may seem like a small thing — a folded piece of leather or fabric, holding cards, receipts, maybe a few worn bills. But it's more than that. Our wallet often reflects our sense of responsibility, our dreams, our discipline, and our desire to keep going. When someone still cares about their wallet, they're not just being careful with money — they’re showing they haven’t given up on life.

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To care about your wallet is to care about your future. It means you’re still planning, still hoping, still making choices that impact your tomorrow. You’re thinking about what you can save, what you can spend, and what you can build. You're not drifting. You're still steering. This small act — checking your budget, holding onto a receipt, saying no to something you can’t afford — shows a quiet kind of strength. It means you haven't given up. It means you still want to live with purpose. Some may laugh at someone who counts every dollar or uses a worn-out wallet until the seams split, but that person is still fighting — for stability, for dignity, for something better. Especially during hard times, this matters. When everything feels like it's falling apart, and you still pause to think about your spending, that’s resilience. That’s courage. It’s easy to stop caring when the world feels heavy. But holding onto those little habits — like checking your wallet before making a purchase — shows that part of you still believes in a better day. So yes, when you still care about your wallet, you still care about living. You’re still in the fight. You’re still valuing your life enough to make wise choices. And that’s something to be proud of. Because caring about your wallet isn’t about greed or materialism — it’s about survival, hope, and determination. It's a reminder that your life still matters to you — and that you haven’t stopped believing in the life you’re working to build. πŸ’ͺ❤️

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Nurture your gut while you sleep — gentle nighttime support for colon health. πŸŒ™πŸ’š

How to Support Colon Health at Night – A Gentle, Natural Approach

Your colon, often called the "second brain," plays a vital role in your overall health — from digestion and detoxification to immune balance. While we often focus on what we do during the day to stay healthy, nighttime is when the body naturally shifts into repair and restore mode. Supporting colon health in the evening can promote better digestion, regularity, and even deeper sleep. Here’s how to take a gentle, natural approach to supporting your colon health at night.


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About three weeks ago, my sister-in-law Jessica—married to my brother Peter—called me, practically bursting with enthusiasm.

She had found what she called the “perfect” lake house in Asheville for a family getaway.

 

“It’s got six bedrooms, a private dock, and even a hot tub!” she gushed. “Only $500 per person.”

Then she casually mentioned that she wouldn’t be paying her share since she was the one handling all the planning.

That should’ve been a warning sign, but my mom, Meryl, was too excited to care.

“Sharon, I haven’t had a proper vacation in forever,” she said happily.

And she wasn’t exaggerating. After our dad passed away, Mom worked tirelessly, juggling three jobs without ever complaining. If anyone deserved a break, it was her.

 
 
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I was genuinely happy she’d finally get a chance to unwind.

But then, just two days before the trip, my young son Tommy spiked a high fever. There was no way I could leave him.

I called Jessica. “I’m really sorry, but Tommy’s sick. I won’t be able to come.”

Her voice turned cold. “Well, I guess we’ll make do without you.”

No concern for my son. Just irritation that her headcount was off.

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I broke the news to Mom, and of course, she immediately offered to stay behind. “I can help with Tommy,” she said.

But I wouldn’t let her. “Mom, no. This trip is for you. Please go and enjoy it. You’ve earned it.”


She left glowing with excitement, reminding me to give Tommy a kiss from Grandma before she hung up.

The next morning, I FaceTimed her to check in. But something was clearly wrong.

She looked tired, and her eyes were swollen like she’d been crying.

“Where are you right now?” I asked, scanning the background.

She hesitated, then said, “The hallway.”

That’s when I noticed the thin camping mat beside a broom closet behind her.

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“You slept there?”

She tried to play it off. “People arrived at different times… It’s okay.”

No, it wasn’t.

I immediately called Peter. “Why is Mom sleeping in the hallway on a mat?”

He sounded defensive. “Jessica said it was first come, first served. And Mom didn’t complain.”

 

“She paid $500 and ended up sleeping next to a cleaning closet,” I snapped. “And you just let that happen?”

“She’ll be fine,” he muttered.

“No. She’s not fine. And shame on you for thinking she is.”

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I arranged a sitter for Tommy and hit the road within the hour. I took along a queen-size air mattress—and a whole lot of fury.

When I arrived, the lake house was just as Jessica had described: luxurious, spacious, and buzzing with laughter.

I found Mom in the kitchen doing dishes. She looked so small and tired.

“You’re not spending another night on that hallway floor,” I told her.

She tried to wave me off. “Don’t cause a scene. I don’t want to ruin the trip.”

“This isn’t about drama—it’s about respect.”

I marched upstairs to the master bedroom and knocked on Jessica’s door.

She answered wearing silk pajamas, holding a glass of wine.

“Sharon! I thought you weren’t coming.”

 

“We need to talk,” I said, holding up the air mattress.

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Her expression soured. “What’s that for?”

“For you.”

I pushed my way in. “You had my mother sleeping on the ground while you enjoyed this suite? Not anymore.”

Peter walked in, confused. “What’s going on?”

“You let Mom sleep on a mat beside a broom closet.”

“I didn’t realize it was that bad.”

“That’s because you didn’t bother to check.”

I packed up Jessica’s belongings. “You can sleep on the patio or hallway now. This room is Mom’s.”

When I led Mom into the suite, she gasped. “Sharon, you didn’t have to…”

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“Yes, I did,” I said. “You matter too much to be treated like this.”


That night, she slept peacefully. The next morning, she looked like a new woman—refreshed, relaxed, and making breakfast like her old self.

Jessica’s relatives were noticeably quiet that day. Some of them even started packing early. I overheard one of her cousins mutter, “She had that coming.”

Later, Jessica cornered me. “You embarrassed me in front of everyone.”

“Good,” I said. “Now you have a taste of how my mother felt.”

“This isn’t over,” she hissed.

“Oh, it is,” I replied. “Because if you ever treat her like that again, I will make sure it doesn’t go unnoticed.”

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Mom and I stayed for the rest of the trip. She swam in the lake, lounged on the dock, and finally felt like someone prioritized her for once.

Before we left, she pulled me in for a hug.

“Thank you for standing up for me,” she whispered.

“You’ve done it for us our whole lives,” I told her. “It’s your turn now.”

Family isn’t just who you’re related to. It’s who defends you when you’re too tired to fight for yourself. My mom gave everything to raise us. Standing up for her wasn’t just right—it was long overdue. And I’d do it again in a heartbeat.

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How to Support Colon Health at Night – A Gentle,


Supporting colon health doesn’t just happen during the day—your nighttime habits can also play a powerful role in promoting gentle digestion, regularity, and long-term gut wellness. By focusing on simple, natural strategies before bed, you can nourish your digestive system while you sleep.


 

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Detox trends are all over the place these days. You’ve probably come across bold claims like “lose 15 kilos of waste overnight!” flashing across social media and ad campaigns.

But before diving into extreme cleanses or pricey detox kits, it’s worth considering: does your body actually need that kind of intervention?

The reality is that your colon already works efficiently every day to remove waste and toxins. It’s not a stagnant container of filth — it’s a dynamic, functional organ that thrives on support, not shock.

 

Instead of relying on harsh methods, consider these gentle and natural ways to care for your colon and digestive system at night — no need for crash detoxes or aggressive laxatives.

The 15-Kilo Detox Myth: Debunked

 


Despite what flashy ads suggest, your colon isn’t harboring 15 kilograms of waste. Here’s what’s actually true:

  • A healthy colon usually holds just a few pounds of material.
  • Any sudden weight loss from a cleanse is mainly due to water loss, not toxin removal.
  • Intense flushes can upset your electrolyte balance, lead to dehydration, and disturb the gut’s microbiome.

Rather than trying to purge your system in one go, focus on gently supporting your body’s natural elimination process, especially while you sleep.

7 Simple Evening Habits for Colon Health

1. Drink Warm Lemon Water

Sipping warm water with fresh lemon juice before bedtime can gently encourage digestion and hydrate the body.

It may help promote a healthy bowel movement the next morning and support a balanced internal pH — all without the harshness of a laxative.

2. Eat a Fiber-Rich Dinner

Dinner is an ideal time to incorporate digestion-friendly fiber.

 

Soluble fiber, found in foods like chia seeds, oats, apples, and legumes, nourishes good gut bacteria and helps sweep waste through the system. Great options include:

  • Steamed broccoli or kale
  • Baked sweet potatoes
  • Overnight oats or chia pudding

3. Try Soothing Herbal Teas

Herbal teas can calm the digestive system and support gentle elimination:

  • Peppermint relaxes the intestinal muscles
  • Ginger stimulates digestive movement
  • Chamomile eases inflammation and promotes sleep
  • Senna (used sparingly) can act as a natural laxative, but should be used with caution

4. Consider Magnesium (If Advised by a Doctor)

Magnesium helps relax muscles, including those in the digestive tract.

Certain forms, like magnesium citrate, can ease mild constipation by drawing water into the intestines and may also support restful sleep.

 

Be sure to consult your healthcare provider before starting supplements.

5. Do Gentle Movement in the Evening

Light stretching or yoga before bed can reduce bloating and support healthy bowel movements.

Poses like gentle twists or bringing the knees to the chest can be especially helpful for digestion.

6. Avoid Salty and Processed Late-Night Snacks

Highly processed or salty foods at night can cause sluggishness and water retention, making you feel heavy. Instead, choose wholesome, lightly cooked meals that are easier to digest and won’t disrupt your rest.

7. Prioritize Quality Sleep

Never underestimate the power of sleep. While you rest, your body focuses on repair, including digestive functions. Poor sleep can throw off your gut rhythm and increase inflammation. For better rest, try:


  • Lowering lights after 9 p.m.
  • Steering clear of screens an hour before bed
  • Sticking to a consistent sleep schedule

A Gentle Approach Works Best

You don’t need to resort to extreme fasting, unpleasant drinks, or colon cleanses to feel healthy or energized. Real wellness is built through small, consistent habits that support — not sabotage — your body’s natural abilities.

So, the next time you’re drawn to a detox program with dramatic claims, pause and ask yourself:

“Is this helping my body… or putting it under stress?”

True digestive health doesn’t come from quick fixes — it comes from care, consistency, and respecting what your body already knows how to do.

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28 years with Ed — a lifetime of love, lessons, and unforgettable memories. Here’s to many more. ❤️

Twenty-eight years with you, Ed — a journey marked by countless memories, quiet moments, and deep bonds. As I reflect on this time, I’m filled with gratitude for everything you’ve been and continue to be in my life.

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From the very beginning, you showed a kind of strength and kindness that few possess. You’ve been a steady presence, a source of wisdom and warmth through every season. Your laughter has lightened difficult days, and your quiet support has anchored me in moments of uncertainty. Over these 28 years, we’ve shared more than just time — we’ve shared stories, dreams, challenges, and growth. I’ve watched you face life with courage and grace, even when the road was tough. Your resilience inspires me. Your heart reminds me what true care looks like. Thank you for the lessons you’ve taught me, sometimes without even trying. How to listen more deeply, how to love without condition, and how to find joy in small, everyday moments. You’ve shown me that strength doesn’t always roar; sometimes it’s a calm hand on your shoulder or a knowing smile. Even now, as we navigate life’s changes, your presence is a gift I treasure. Whether sharing a laugh, a quiet conversation, or simply sitting side by side, these moments are precious. They remind me that no matter what comes, we walk this path together. Ed, thank you for 28 years of unwavering love and friendship. For the memories that fill my heart and the hope that fills my soul. I look forward to the days ahead — to more laughter, more stories, and more moments shared. Here’s to you, to us, and to the beautiful journey we continue to travel — together.

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It’s more than a piercing — it’s personal, powerful, and often misunderstood. πŸ‘…πŸ’¬

Most People Don’t Know What a Tongue Piercing Really Means πŸ‘…

Tongue piercings often spark curiosity, speculation, and sometimes even judgment — but their meaning isn’t always what people assume.

While many associate tongue piercings with bold personal expression or edgy style, their significance varies widely depending on culture, individual reasons, and even history. For some, it’s simply a fashion choice — a way to stand out, feel confident, or celebrate body autonomy. Others see it as a form of rebellion or liberation, especially in youth culture.

Historically, certain tribes and ancient civilizations practiced tongue piercing for spiritual or ritualistic purposes, believing it brought them closer to the divine by symbolically "releasing" the spirit through the mouth.

In modern times, meanings can range from artistic expression to sensual symbolism, but here's the key point: it means whatever the wearer decides it means. Like any form of body modification, it’s deeply personal — and often misunderstood by those who only see it on the surface.

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Why do some people choose to have their tongue pierced? Aesthetic whim, a desire to stand out, a secret symbol? This little oral jewel attracts many questions… Behind this seemingly trendy gesture was a delightful, often little-known story, and meanings as amazing as they are ancient.

 

Tongue piercing: an ancient ritual full of meaning

Long before it was represented in the windows of modern salons, tongue piercing had a sacred dimension. In the Mayans and Aztecs cultures, this gesture was anything but meaningless. The priests of these ancient civilizations pierced their tongues during ritual ceremonies, for a specific purpose: to connect with the gods.


This spilled blood was not a simple providing; it indicated a bridge between the world of men and that of spirits. A powerful spiritual act, a million miles from current reasons. It’s a bit like wearing an ancient medallion without knowing that it’s actually a powerful talisman.

An announcement of self and a symbol of freedom

Today, getting your tongue pierced is barely a spiritual endeavor. It’s become a means of expression, a way to say, “I am me, and I own it.” Many consider it as a special way to stand out, much like a discreet but meaningful tattoo.

 
 

A sensual connotation… but not only that

Tongue piercings also raise concern. Some see them as a symbol of seduction, even sensuality, often implied by popular culture.

In reality, the motivations are various. It can be chosen for comfort, style, or to send a message. A tongue piercing, on the other hand, can be a permission to one’s belonging to a subculture, a touch of eccentricity, or simply a desire for change.

 

Tongue piercing: precautions that should not be unnoticed

The mouth is a breeding ground for bacteria, which indicates there’s a risk of infection if you don’t follow certain precautions.

After the procedure, hygiene becomes your best ally: antiseptic rinses, a proper diet, and daily monitoring are crucial for the first few weeks.


What a tongue piercing really shows

This small, shiny ring is a true symbolic chameleon: spiritual, identitarian, aesthetic, even provocative relying on the context. Through it, everyone predicts a message, whether intentional or not. It’s a type of language without words, a way of saying something about oneself without opening one’s mouth.


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